Only two more days in Cape Town! The time here flew by so fast I can hardly believe it. Towards the end of our trip my mind has naturally drifted toward thinking a lot about the things that I miss about home and the things I won’t miss about here, but now that our departure date is so near I’ve been trying to identify the things that I will really miss about Cape Town. The obvious things that came into my head first were food items, like piping hot supersize cocoa cookies, amazingly juicy fresh fruit from woolworths, ridiculously tender calamari, milk tarts, Nando’s chicken burgers and pitas among other things. Thinking about these things also made me realize how food-centric my thoughts are in general, so I’ve been trying to force myself to think a little more deeply about the things I will genuinely miss that are not food-related.
I will miss the people we’ve met here, the nurses who’ve taken us under their wing and been sometimes befuddled by our accents and American ways. I’ll miss Reverend Rose and Dr. Guma who’ve taken so much of their time to show us their South Africa and make sure we’re getting the most of our time here. I’ll miss Ben and his random popping-in and out of the house, his little excited kicks and frequent Apple computer sales pitches.
I’ll miss the gorgeous weather, seeing the sun every morning and having the option to swim in the pool or go to the beach.
I’ll miss the scenery. I’ll miss the view of the city and the bay that uncovers itself slowly as you drive around the mountain. I’ll miss Table Mountain being the backdrop for everything we do, whether it’s just a walk in the commons, classes at UCT, concerts in Kirstenbosch gardens or hanging out in the city, looking up and seeing the mountain is always a reminder of what an amazing place this is.
I’ll miss having so many incredible things to do right within a 10 minute drive. You can hike Table Mountain, go to the museums, haggle in the market, lay on the beach, explore Kirstenbosch gardens and so many other things without getting more than 10 miles from home.
South Africa has been a place that has really made me think. I’ve had to examine my own values and beliefs about poverty, racism and forgiveness, the problems that plague this country every day and our so obvious on the streets of the city where you see little children begging and the monuments to the old white imperialist regime marked with graffiti. It’s made me realize the things I’m grateful for about our country and the things that I don’t agree with about our society, like the attention we give to celebrity gossip and the value we place on insignificant material things when there are so many bigger news stories and better places we could be putting our money. Here, all of the divides of race and money are still pretty clearly delineated. There are places in South Africa designed for tourists and the upper class where you can forget for a moment all of the needy people just outside the gate. A person could easily live in South Africa driving from one gated area to the other and ignoring the people begging at city intersections, or standing outside your fence and asking for clothing or food for their families. You can’t live here without doing some sort of introspection and I feel like I find a reason to do it almost every day.
I think what I’ll really miss when I get home though is the other girls. I know we’re going home together, but I think I might feel incredibly lonely now in my quiet house with my own bathroom and as much fridge space as I need. I’ve made so many great friends here, and now we’ve all shared an experience that as much as we try to explain it to people, no one will ever fully understand except for the 14 of us.
All things considered though, I am very excited to come home and celebrate Christmas with my family. I came to the sad realization yesterday that when I get there I won’t be able to wear flip flops anymore, but I think I’ll survive somehow. I’ll never forget the time I had here and I would love to come back someday, but right now it’s time to get my winter clothing out and head for Connecticut!
-Kari



